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AITA for Calling My Crying Girlfriend Disgusting? It sounds like you were really surprised by how your girlfriend reacted. You care a lot about her daughter and see her as a happy, well-adjusted kid with her own friends and interests. Hearing your girlfriend talk about her daughter in such a negative way must have been hard.
You were right to stand up for the daughter, especially since she seems content with who she is. However, your girlfriend might have been expressing some deep worries or fears about her daughter’s future, even if it came out in a hurtful way. Understandably, you got upset, but it might help to have a calm conversation where you both can share your feelings without it turning into a fight.
How are you feeling now? Do you think your girlfriend would be open to talking about this again
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Nta
Not gonna lie I had my mind made up when I read the title but her words are absolutely disgusting. Having a happy, healthy child is what her focus should be, not her popularity. Don’t ignore her words though, she’s just shown her true colours.
desolation29 writes:NTA OP, calling your girlfriend disgusting is not only NOT going too far, in my opinion it doesn’t go far enough to describe her hateful attitude towards her daughter. Cheers to you OP (THE BOYFRIEND) for accepting, supporting, and loving this child more than her ACTUAL MOTHER! Make sure the daughter knows this because I feel like it’s only a matter of time before her own mother starts bullying her and trying to force her to be an exact copy of what she was in high school, if she hasn’t already done so. I mean for crying out loud, this woman seems more focused on treating her daughter like she’s a trophy child than as her daughter, and that’s just deplorable.
The__Riker__Maneuver writes:INFO
Have you just been ignoring a bunch of Red Flags for a year?
There’s no way you haven’t previously noticed that your girlfriend is superficial and immature….to the point where she would talk shit about her own daughter
Do us all a favor and wait for this post to get more responses and then show it to your girlfriend.
ProfessionalGold2819 writes:NTA!!! I have a daughter who is the same way. I was devastated as a mother when she was 5 and not wanting to do dance classes. BUT- I have learned to enjoy what she enjoys, because I will lose connection with her if I don’t. She is her own person. So is your GF’s daughter. You were right to bring to her attention that SHE was being in the wrong. Expectations are a horrible thing. You cannot live out your dreams through your children. It’s not fair to them at all, and only causes you to feel miserable
ProfessionalGold2819 writes:NTA!!! I have a daughter who is the same way. I was devastated as a mother when she was 5 and not wanting to do dance classes. BUT- I have learned to enjoy what she enjoys, because I will lose connection with her if I don’t. She is her own person. So is your GF’s daughter. You were right to bring to her attention that SHE was being in the wrong. Expectations are a horrible thing. You cannot live out your dreams through your children. It’s not fair to them at all, and only causes you to feel miserable.
